Aug 28, 2026
This week, grief was impossible to avoid — Hayden Panettiere, Dolly Parton, Tim Curry, and Peter Cullen all left us within days of each other, and the collective mourning was loud, public, and completely normal. But what happens when the person who dies isn't a celebrity — it's your patient, your coworker, or someone in your own family, and you're the healthcare provider who's supposed to hold it together anyway?
In this episode on The Gritty Nurse with Amie Archibald-Varley, I get personal about my own experience with grief, then break down exactly how nurses and healthcare providers are trained — from nursing school through clinicals to the bedside — to suppress it. I dig into why that training is maladaptive (with the research to back it up: burnout, complicated grief, even mortality risk), how it complicates our ability to grieve our own losses, and what "good grief" could actually look like if we stopped bottling it up — for our own health, and for our patients' care too.
It's time we stop teaching healthcare providers that big girls and big boys don't cry.
This episode explores the often overlooked topic of grief among healthcare providers, emphasizing how the current training and workplace culture suppress emotional expression and the profound impact this has on mental health and patient care.
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healthcare, grief, burnout, emotional health, nursing, death, compassion, Schwartz rounds, mental health, professional culture
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